I am talking to this guy on a dating site, and it's looking like it might lead up to meeting IRL somewhere. I would like to disclose to him my struggles with mental health possibly before things get too serious, if they do that is. I want him to know what he's going to have to deal with upfront, rather than trying to hide it like I have with past relationships. Basically, though I hate to think of it as such, telling him right at the beginning is a test of sorts to see if he's open to being involved with me, issues and all, or not.

So, how do I go about doing this?