Dickie, like Skeezyks said, only you can determine if you're gay or not. Also, like Seezyks says, there is a spectrum for both sexuality and gender identity. Maybe talking to a therapist about where you feel you fall in these spectrums might be beneficial.

Things to consider when determining where on the sexuality spectrum you fall are if you feel any attraction sexually to males, or if you maybe are interested in them romantically, as in you'd like to be with one in a relationship.

My sexuality is something I've struggled with as I grew up. It not only confused me as to why I felt the way I did about the same sex, but I felt ashamed and repulsed by it as my maternal grandmother was a devout and conservative Catholic woman and sought to it that I was raised the same under my mother's care. I also felt I would be teased mercilessly by my peers if those feelings I had were made public. It wasn't until I was in my late 20's that I finally made the decision that, hey, I had these feelings about other women, and it was perfectly okay to have them. I was done fighting them, done feeling ashamed. It was a very freeing and liberating experience.

Anyways, I hope you're not repressing anything to the point of feeling ashamed and repulsed by it. It's unnecessary IMHO to feel that way about one's own sexuality. I hope you find peace somehow, someway with whichever sexuality you have.