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Old Sep 04, 2007, 02:50 PM
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Hello (((SELFY))). Sometimes a parent just does not want their children to worry and they feel that just moving on is best and by not spending too much time concentrating on the problems then the problems will eventually go away. Unfortunately children these days need more input from their parents than just forget about the situation and move on, they need to feel that they have been validated in being heard and that someone is aware that they are suffering in some way and that they have someone on their side during their suffering. Perhaps if you even write a letter to your parents (you do not have to give it to your parents since obviously you feel you are Not going to get the response you need) but at least you can feel vindicated in expressing yourself and not being harmed through their negative responses, or responses that you feel are not validating enough for you to feel that they are aware of what is really going on in your life. In time in writing the letters then maybe you can feel more attentive in what your needs are that need to be met, and how to get the recognition you are needing at this time with your parents, even is it is just that you are able to express the pain and hurt you are feeling and that you were at lest not condemned for your feelings from your parents. Take care. (((Selfy))). Soidhonia .
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