I am nervous and anxious around people because I'm not sure how to act, what to say, when to say it etc. etc.

I've looked into Aspergers, especially since the only person I seem to really relate to (my boyfriend) has it. But if I mention it to anyone there's either not enough information or I'm shot down because it's "clearly a psychological issue", even though I think people forget that it appears differently in women than in men.

Just focusing on the relationship I have isn't enough. I still feel lonely a significant amount of the time. Not having friendships with other people affects my relationship. When he goes off with friends/family by himself then I'm pretty much completely alone. If I had friends then I could do something with them and not be upset that he's going off and doing his own thing some weekends.