Intimate sexual discussion? Sorry for asking. How it's therapeutic? Well I've got to have the discussion with somebody. I can't keep suppressing my emotions. It's not healthy. I'm going to counseling and I'm trying to have the discussions there, but counseling is expensive and time consuming, so I try to reach out to people here for help. I've gotten a lot of good advice from this forum and I'm thankful.

My wife, does not like talking about sex, bless her soul. She also doesn't like talking about my psychological hang ups. You see, she has hang ups too. Having an open discussion with someone who doesn't want to have an open discussion is like knocking your head up against the wall with the idea that one day it will give way. I'm getting help where I can and engaging my wife as much as I can.

Thanks for the open discussion and I apologize if I offended you in anyway.