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bebop said:
I don't know hon. I know my current husband is much different than any I have ever been with.

I won't get married again I don't think if this one goes out the window.

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It is not so much that the men are the same, but more as to what Characteristics they hold in each of them that are similar to your caregivers (from early child hood) - those people and situations that created your early wounds..... each and every one of our mates will mimic the past to us until we are able to heal - in order to complete the unfinished work we all have in an effort to find our true self.

I understand how you feel, for I too have stated that very same thing - either thru death or divorce, all I know is no more relationship man for me.