oh and also guess what? I fixed my h's car!!! I'm so proud of myself. I had to drive it yesterday to work cuz he needed my car for a long distance job. When I tried to turn on the headlights cuz it was stil a little dark, they did this demonic flash-flash-flash thing and clicking. I was like huh?! So I did some research and found suggestions to replace a fuse. So I went this morning and got a tester and some fuses and found the fuse panel, figured out which one was the one for the headlights, pulled it and tested it and sure enough - bad! Replaced it, and the headlights work again! Woo!