Yes,,I grew up with high functioning alcoholic father!he was a yeller/criticized/made fun of us and mom. She was not working/had many kids...so she just stayed,always we had to be quiet/on best behavior so not to upset him.he like to be in control/king of castle...then I married a man-not alcoholic but yeller/criticized...always had to be Right!! So,I always used to be quiet not argue..then our issues started because I realized I do have valid opinions,I am right sometimes and he is not the boss of me!