As someone who has seen alcohol and substance abuse from both sides, I would say the time to consider leaving is when it is affecting your physical and/or mental health and your partner is taking no steps to address the issue. Your own health, wellbeing and ultimate happiness is paramount.
Have strength.
Dave.
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You and I are yesterday's answers,
The earth of the past come to flesh,
Eroded by Time's rivers,
To the shapes we now possess.
The Sage. Emerson, Lake and Palmer.
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