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Originally Posted by Anglo
Guilt is widely what I feel, and I'm sure my T said it because I felt deserving of that behaviour, she wanted me to understand that I had nothing to feel guilty over. I'd taken on far too much responsibility that really didn't belong to me. For me to have something to compare my SDs behaviour to, I had acknowledgement that it wasn't me.
I think T's do what they think is best, sometimes it doesn't always have the desired effect but we all make mistakes. The best thing about the situation is, most T's want to know if they've upset you or said something wrong because they don't want it to effect the relationship we share with them.  |
Yeah, you're right -- I think (realizing especially as I'm reading this thread) for me it was just seeing my life in a whole new light that's been a trifle jarring.
But also, I think I've been giving the dx way too much weight -- as others have said, they just took it for what it is as a way of confirming stuff for themselves and I think that's how I'd like to see it as well.
So, I reckon it'll all get normalized soon enough but for whatever reason, my initial reaction resulted in my insides turning a bit topsy-turvy!