((((((((((Rainbowzz))))))))))))))),

You have my hugz & prayers that your decisions will be for your babies best interest first of all & yours second (both are probably equal)

It is important for you to look seriously at the relationship you are in.....there isn't anything partially abusive about it.....that is completely abusve.

I hate to say this because you are probably already realizing this, but:

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When i said that by not letting me eat, he was hurting his baby too, he said oh well that makes two kids I don't care about. Since he has one already that he is dodging child support on.

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Clue # 1 as to what kind of person he truely is & you already know it.....if he is already dodging one child support....why in the world would you believe the lies he was telling you about how he would care for you & another baby.

He probably told the previous mother the same lies????

Leapords never change their spots.....& neither do dead beat dads.....besides, if he really cared, he wouldn't have gotten you pregnant in the first place.

But enough said about what you probably already know deep down inside.

This is the important part of this post. You are a very special person who is loving & wants only the best for yourself, needing to be cared for is an important feeling in life. You need to be protected against this person who is just showing his true spots all over again.

I hope you can find a shelter that you can go to. It isn't good for the unborn child for the mother to be that stressed during the pregnancy....it does effect the baby even though it doesn't seem like it could. You are right not to go back with your Mother.....why go from one bad situation to another just like it. You are wise to realize this.

As for your kitties....oh no, try to find a friend who can temporarily baby set them until you can get into a situation where you are able to care for them again alwo. Hopefully a friend will be willing to babyset.

I am praying that you will be able to find the right place that is safe for you from all the stress of the abuse he is throwing at you. You are right....he is getting worse, & he will only get worse as the days go by.....I'm guessing, but that is probably what happened to the Mother of the other child?.

Even if you go to a shelter for a little while so that you can get away from the situation, clear your mind out & be able to make a the right decision. The shelter would be wonderful to temporarialy give you that break from the situation you are in.

You have my hugs & my prayers for a safe & peaceful life for both you & your baby,
Debbie