I do strongly recommend Al-Anon also. (Though it may be hard for you to get to a meeting.) I lived for 7 years with a man who drank heavily. AL-Anon helped me enormously, though it took years for me to truly change my thinking. I was 41 y. o. when I finally left living with him. I felt horrible and heart-broken, at first. Then I felt fantastic and was so glad I left.