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Originally Posted by Rose76
Wandering Soul, Just by the way you interact here, I see that you have a lot more social skills than you are giving yourself credit for.
I bet you can be just fine one-on-one with someone you trust and don't feel self-conscious around. Part of your trouble is you are imagining that other people are way more smooth and confident than they actually are. There's more people worrying about how they sound and what you think of them than you realize.
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Thanks. I guess for me I have difficulties doing this. I manifest what I feel and think. I'm so self-conscious around people, as if all of them watching and judging me. The funniest part is that, when I'm around people, and become reserved, people probably take it as a sign that I'm not interested, so, they begin to avoid me, and distance themselves from me. For example, if I walk with a group, and didn't talk to any one.
You're right, my imagination is preventing me from connecting with others. But I'm also fragile emotionally, that many small things make me frustrated (probably it has something to do with me keep withdrawing, and not enduring them).
Thanks again.