The important thing is that you are doing what you think is best.....I don't feel there are rules when a persons well being is at stake.....you are doing what you feel is needed to be done. I agree that people who do things wrong should answer for what they do.

I am still trying to figure out how to approach the social workers at the hospital where my Mother was.....when they wrote down all the correct buz words, making it sound like there were doing everything....when they never had actions to follow up the words. People should be held accountable for their actions....especially when those actions & their jobs effect so many people at such a deep level.

Hopefully by pointing out what happned, those at a place that can do something will be able to help her now.

You are still caring for you & looking out for her best interest....it may not get her back with you, but hopefully they won't hurt her any more than she is.

Debbie