True.

Even people who lie and deceive, are helpful if you don't give them a reason to lie.

Reminds me of the movie Crash, when a black man (ludacris) was just planning on walking by a white woman (sandra bullock). The plans changed when she awkwardly clung to her husbands arm, showing not only fear, but disrespect, to the black man. Then she got mugged.

I am a huge believer in self fulfilling prophecies. They are literally swarming our world, for better and for worse. It is a cycle that can become both incredibly fortunate or vicious