I'm sorry about the title,..
I'm seeing one girl that was dadys daughter (but in a sense when a father sees a daughter a bit more like a son - this girl is brave, not so feminine, has a lot of guy-like characteristics and interests but hey - she is straight!).
I have noticed that when we make love, she likes when I take her a but more assertive, harder; she got enough of gentle touch and she would like to be taken over. Recently, when we made love, my imagination went into 'soft rape mode' and she liked it. But now I don't think I got the power to get her to the top of that cause I'm the guy who was always taught to be gentle with girls.
My Q would be: how often a regular girl have this need to be taken over and should I go further and be more rough (even I don't have enjoyment in that and those moves) and search her boundary until she say 'Now stop that!'?
As I said, this girl has a lot guy-like character lines but she has feminine looks and use it really good.