Thank you for all your replies.

Wildflower, I am so sorry for the heartache you are going through. That is beyond difficult.

Smallwonder, thank you for the complement. I think you are right. I do feel I'm never good enough but the proof is in the pudding, as they say.
I look at her & am amazed at how awesome she is. I think it's by happenstance but I guess I had a little to do with it