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Frankbtl · Mar 13, 2016, 01:42 PM

Hi Crazy Hitch,

"Can't stop thinking of him ... and yet I know I shouldn't"
I'd say it's kind of natural you're thinking about him a lot right now, you will have shared a lot with him, including I'm guessing a lot of personal stuff and obviously intimacy and..........this............

And often no easy way just to turn off the love I'm sorry

, although maybe you could start with.........you still have love for him BUT............and add here things like.........you deserve/d much more, he's unable to give you what you really need, he isn't worthy of you..............
And ultimately who he is now/who he's showing himself to be, isn't the person you fell in love with/who you love..........that person wouldn't have treated you this way, wouldn't have been so uncaring...........
And I completely get the grieving for what you lost/the person he was and allow yourself that..........

but just remember the person he is now, that one.........is way better out of your life..........that one you can do way better without

Alison