Apparently her first T sees this second T for therapy, not just consultation. OP decided to see 2nd T on her own and didn't divulge to the 2nd T when she went to see him that the 1st T was her T (or I'm guessing the 2nd T would not have even seen her). It sounds like the 2nd T put 2 and 2 together and connected her to the 1st T (I haven't heard her give any evidence that it happened deliberately on her 1st T's part). Whole situation could have been avoided if she had not gone to see 2nd T and/or would have revealed her working relationship with 1st T to the 2nd T. (That's the best I understand the situation from what the OP has explained.) At this point, the OP probably should stop seeing the 2nd T and maybe even the 1st T because her working relationship with the 1st has not been terrible great (he placed a long list of restriction on her to try to maintain boundaries which clearly is an issue). I would think the 2nd T should discontinue seeing her even if she doesn't voluntarily stop on her own considering he was already established with her first T before she went to see him. Not sure why he hasn't done that.