I am so sorry this is happening to you. You do not deserve to be treated like this. He is pond scum and a complete and utter coward. Any woman who can see what he did to you and still wants to be with him deserves his sorry *** because the previous poster is right. He will do it to her.

I know it is hard to see right now but you are better off without him, his deceit and all the lies....making you feel like you are the one in the wrong, shaking your confidence, which I am sure he did.

You are a survivor and will come out of this stronger in the end but for the time being just grieve for the relationship you once had. Grieving that loss will help you work through it.