rainbowz this guy is straight forward abusive. it seems that you are having problems getting funding from the government because you are still living with him? i do think the idea of a shelter temporarily is no worse than being in an abusive situation with no independence. if you were living in a shelter the government might be that much quicker to provide you with accomodation and you would be free from this jerk.
you have received really good advice in this thread and i hope you take some of it. you do not deserve this and your baby certainly does NOT deserve to be born in a house where her/his father does not whole heartedly love and accept her/him.
please prioritise yourself and your child. i will keep you in my thoughts.
((((((((((((((((rainbowz)))))))))))))))))

edited to add: ps about the kitty cats, it is easier to find a home for them and more humane than trying to keep them with you if you are living in an abusive situation. though i fully understand the idea of losing pets who are part of the family. you child and your self must come first, impossibly hard as it may seem.