Great, thank you, I'm already fascinated, I'll go and read that.

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I know what you mean, River, about being caught up in a particular theory;

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I'm sure you're right, but my goodness! this is the biggest reaction I have ever had. Actually, it really has clarified things, but being me, I went to such extremes, he got ino my head and followed me round forever. I was doing some recovery work with a freind, trying to work through this stuff, and I told her how stuck he got in my head I used to say, "ok, cm'on Dr.M. time to do the hoovering". Then she told me me and him got stuck in her head and me and him were doing the hoovering with her. And we're not even in the same country! Wonderfully disorderdered I recon. At least we got some extended giggles out of this

It has been really helpful sharing here and listenign to others. Theres lots more I still need to work through and understand.