I've seen at least 12. Please keep looking. It's not easy to find someone compatible that you respect (& who respects you) and can work with. I eventually lucked out and found a wonderful therapist who is a great match for me and has similar goals for therapy.
You mentioned:
"#4 Therapist....well I think they need to see a therapist. "
Wow, I hear you. I have met several like that and it is really unfortunate. Who needs to have to deal with that nonsense?