Break ups are hard regardless who left who. In your case though there was never s relationship so I don't really see how it's helpful for people to tell you they understand that break ups hurt. There was no break up. I think it's important to tell you pdoc that you are obsessing over women with whom you never had a relationship.

Also the fact that this women are more than 30 years younger than you. Repeatedly. I also wonder about coffee places, sounds like might be another obsession as you always meet them in coffee places and they seem to be working there. And you keep going there

I am not sure what's your diagnosis but you got to do something about it.

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