I think I know where it came from...having trouble getting the kids' mom involved in their therapy sessions...she's the one having all the issues at her house and none at mine...she has heard it from me and she even asked the children if they take care of chores, etc. at my house...

Can't she see that she is part of the problem...she's kind of the parent where her fix my kid...I'm the one for the last 26 weeks every Saturday for 2 hours work with the therapist (it's either me and the oldest or the two oldest boys...one needs everyother week the other needs every week and I need every other week)...

I'm not a perfect parent...and I know too I can be part of the problem...

At least the T told me to keep doing what I'm doing...

Anyway she sent me an email ranting about one of the ideas we were thinking about and T didn't have a chance to email (he had gotten her permission, so that we could attempt to get her involved)...I simply told her to call T...though I didn't engage her in the email...it bothered me to know end...and took me from calm, to heating, to cooking, to boiling, to boiling over in a matter of seconds...

Direct quote form him after his phone conversation with her..."I don’t know if I can be successful, but I will try to buffer her wrath and see if I can’t get her to be reasonable. Don’t hold your breath".

So There was a reason...but I was so in the tornado at the time...