I know you feel comfort with your T, but it sounds like he's trying for force you out. It's like he doesn't have the courage to end the therapy or transfer you.
I think you should take the steps mentioned by other people, (I'm not in the US so in terms of money I'm clueless) but he doesn't sound like he's helping you, it sounds like he's upsetting you more lately than helping you.

Until you find someone new or work out what you want to do, I'll be here so you can vent, rant or message me. I'll always listen x