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Old Mar 14, 2016, 11:47 AM
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Significantly less drinking.
Got a personal trainer and started exercising 5 days a week. I've always been active, but making it a regular scheduled part of my life has helped.
Set up a daily routine which has been the hardest part. I love the novelty(but not the consequences) of chaos. It's so strange to go through the motions is such a way. I'm terrified that im going to FREAK THE F[emoji102]k out one of these days, but for now...it's strangely comforting.

Do y'all notice issues with your friends over your positive changes? It's hard for mine to see it and not feel ignored,left behind, etc. I get a lot of grief for it
At one point in life I was very overweight. 5' tall and over 200 lbs. I joined Weight Watchers and started losing weight, and feeling great. Hubby (ex now), would bring home fact food, chips, candies, baking, and comment "I brought this for you". So, out of guilt I ate it. Then it hit me... he wants me to be heavy, feel lethargic and blah so he could feel better about himself. It was very strange to realize that my hubby was my worst enemy
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