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Originally Posted by mira belle
Nah. Dont wanna tell him..what will that accomplish?
i guess it was kind of a test. Since i kept it hidden till the very end...to see if he ll have a natural or more genuine reaction...like oh wow...thats great ! A big step for you !
Now that i recall...he didnt even acknowledge it as that. That its anything significant. It was end of session (10 mins left). N his response was totally flat.
How would u interpret this response? Lack of actually. Is it normal. (I find it very odd..even if a stranger told me a good news on a bus...i ll b happy for them...just cuz they r so happy and it means so much to them! ).
Thanks chavinhat ...i m super proud of myself.
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No testing allowed!!! I hate when people test me. To me, its the same as lying. Its a form of lying, anyway. Its like a surprise party - its really for the benefit of the giver, not the receiver. Its not SHARING. It does not make the other person feel good. So why do you expect him to show happiness? Im sorry to be so negative, but i really really hate tests!