I think those of us that have heard anything, there wasn't a direct "oh so and so has this" where this "diagnose" word is being misunderstood.

But if suggesting that after many years that one is struggling with a loved one that could be a result of something of importance, it could be brought up on a case by case basis in terms of helping the client.

I know for myself, not speaking for anyone else, I didn't turn around and use this to destroy someones life nor to villify nor to sit and make excuses. Nor to play the role of Victim. There's a certain maturation involved here.

I'm sorry to read how adamantly unethical you find this. I disagree.