So I am gender queer and recently I've started dating this girl.. Since I am a bit shy of my gender I really don't talk about it with some people, and she is in that group. Since I know she is bisexual I find it hard to believe that she can love me the same way. I prefer the pronouns he but most people use she and I don't' want to correct them. I am scared of coming out, yet a lot of people know.. How do I know if she is going to be okay with it.. and what to even tell her. I'm scared that if I go out dating as who I am it will be hard for me to find anyone!