oh gosh, I'm sorry Mac, but it seems to me that you may be mis-reading this woman's intentions. You are 37 years older than her...that is a lot. Maybe you are a father figure of sorts? I wish you the best but I think until you start looking for someone closer to your age, these continual mis-understandings will do you more harm than good.

If she is indeed interested in you sexually and romantically, there is surely something amiss in her intentions, too. I'm afraid you will both end up losers, but she has plenty of time still left to figure things out, you, however, don't.

I think that you need to figure out why you want someone so much younger than you????