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Old Mar 15, 2016, 09:59 PM
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Originally Posted by awkwardlyyours View Post
I don't know what the laws are -- could you check with your T or someone else if your checking up on her (E.g. calling social services etc) could be done discreetly? Or, would that necessarily entail some sort of action on their part?

Mostly because while the kid's safety is crucial, I'd also worry a bit about what'll happen to the kid if social services visits and then determines all's well but the kid's caregivers end up punishing the kid somehow for it?

Sorry, not to make your conundrum more complicated.
Thanks, I was a bit concerned about that, too. Which is why I figured I'd ask my T. I also figure if the girl comes around more, maybe I can try to gradually ask more questions. I do know where she goes to school (Kindergarten), so that could be a way to check up, too, without formally getting social services involved. Don't know her last name, but know where she lives, so would have first and middle name if I wanted to check on her (she told me her first, but goes by her middle...assuming she's not making that up!)
Thanks for this!
awkwardlyyours