Hi Sarah

I think as you said in your previous message, that you are seeing a Psychodynamic counsellor. With this type of counselling approach that she is using, there will be no warmth from her as this is part of the theraputic process of the approach unfortunately.

You need to look for, if you can, for an integrative counsellor , who merges all three approaches within the theraputic process. So they will have the warmth that you are looking for.