My T pretty much has a no boundary phone call policy-- meaning he encourages me to call whenever I want and to say whatever I want. He even said if I get mad at him I can say on the voicemail, "Don't listen to this" and then go ahead and curse him out if I feel like it. He said that I could trust him not to listen to it. (And I do trust that he wouldn't.) Or I could curse him out and have him listen to it, haha. Or whatever I want. I have never cursed him out over voicemail. Yet. Anyway, his phone is set to go straight to voicemail so if I leave a message at a reasonable time he will always get back to me that day. However, generally when I do leave a message it tends to be late at night b/c that's usually when I'm going through a difficult time.... So he always calls me back the next day. I do struggle with how wide open he leaves it... It's still hard for me to call.