Hello Whereicomefrom: The Skeezyks welcomes you to PsychCentral! May you find the time you spend here to be of benefit. Major changes, such as you've made, always take some getting used to. And then being prone to depression & anxiety, which it sounds like you are, just makes matters worse. Are there any support groups or leisure activities you could get involved in? Perhaps something of this sort might help to bridge the gap. The Skeezyks sends you his best wishes...