I think that at 19 years old, its probably all just a bit much for her.


Think about it, she already has a two year old, which is a handful, without question.


Then she moves in with you a month after you start dating, a MONTH, and suddenly has THREE little girls.


(Really what was the rush here, there was ZERO adjustment period for anyone, and 4 weeks certainly doesn't count...)


That's alot for anyone to take in, in such a short amount of time, and especially at her age. I mean that's usually the "I just graduated high school" age.


Not the "I'm all grown up and live with my bf and our three daughters" age.


I mean I gave birth at 19, so I can only imagine what having a toddler at that age must be like.


It's alot of work, alot of responsibility, and if she's working, its downright exhausting.


Now multiply that by three.


Looks to me like she's smart and doing the healthy thing for herself, as well as your relationship by creating some breathing room, so that she doesn't get overwhelmed and grow resentful.


Too much WAY too soon ya know?


I can't answer you question regarding whether or not she will connect with your twins, (my best guess would be yes), but if you want a more definitive answer, its best to ask her.


I think slowing things down is the best chance your relationship has at this point. Absence makes the heart grow fonder...


I mean its not like she said she hates your kids, that's a different story altogether.


A story titled "Deal Breaker."


I personally think she's made a smart move. Doesn't mean she doesn't love you or your girls.