My take on this is that it's a commitment ceremony that basically commits to nothing since it seems like the only commitment exists on the part of the guy......I do wonder if he really knows where you are coming from angelwings or if you haven't truly been open & honest with him about what you want in your life? Lets see, you are the one that wants the open arrangement to be with more than just him & you are the one that doesn't want to live with him........

what exactly are YOU committing to?