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Originally Posted by eskielover
My take on this is that it's a commitment ceremony that basically commits to nothing since it seems like the only commitment exists on the part of the guy......I do wonder if he really knows where you are coming from angelwings or if you haven't truly been open & honest with him about what you want in your life? Lets see, you are the one that wants the open arrangement to be with more than just him & you are the one that doesn't want to live with him........
what exactly are YOU committing to?
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Excellent question, one the OP and more importantly her fiancé should definitely know the answer to, before this "commitment ceremony"...
It's good to clear any and all muddy waters so as not to dash any hopes and avoid the misery of misplaced expectations.
OP if your arrangement works for you AND your fiancé, then awesome, doesn't matter that I think its weird or imbalanced and largely favours you, instead of being a fair compromise.
As long as you're both happy, that's what counts at the end of the day.