I have a question

When you cut and your bf/gf or SO finds out...as they always do....do they ever lightly hit...not slam...but just tap hard enough on the cuts to make you wince? Or do they ever rub up against them when they know it causes you great pain? And only stop if your crying, then apologize, or just enough until you scream stop and push them away... If they do why do they do that? What is their thinking on this That they dont do it often but like once or twice everytime they find out youve fallen off the trail....who knows...im at a loss of understanding what the fun is in it....