Many good posts to think about...I liked Butterflylady's choice number 11...

I sence there is a lot of romance...at least from your point of view...not sure the "honeymoon" has worn off yet...I think SeptemberMorn pointed out some red flags there...

If she wants a child...is someone willing to stay home until that child is in school...I'm in no way implying that daycare doesn't work...but if she is that desperate to have a child what is she or you willing to give up to have one...that's a really big question...don't you think?