Thank you so much for your response.

So when I first posted, they were having brunch - and that was upsetting enough. But since then (in the past few hours) they have moved on to having drinks at a bar, and are now visiting his Aunt together (probably to have a couple more drinks).

I asked her if she'll be home soon so I can call, but she says they've now made plans to meet up with some of her family at a different bar tonight. So I don't think I'll get to really talk to her.

I then couldn't refrain myself. I posted everything I was feeling via Facebook messages. I told her that even if he is being cool and hiding his feelings today just to hang out, that I've realized I'm not okay with it. I can't even think clearly.

She hasn't responded to anything. The last thing she said was "I don't want to sit in my phone all day" because she's trying to socialize. I think she just doesn't understand.

So now she must be upset with me for venting everything while she's in the middle of having such a great day with her friends. But I couldn't help myself!

The more time that passes today, the more drinks she'll have and the less likely I'll get through to her, so I'm thinking I have no choice but to just forget about it for now and hope to god nothing happens. But I need to obviously get through to her, maybe tomorrow morning.

I would still love more opinions on this. And now that I'm feeling so upset, I'm literally shaking here, does anyone have some tips to calm down??