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I guess I just thought he'd end up seeing he bigger picture and apologise as we could move on instead he's saying that I need to take responsibility for my actions
He totally lacks empathy which I've said a lot and never apologies. I wonder why I ever stayed with him for so long
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Hope you have kept him blocked.
Many guys have pride that they should choke on but NEVER do because of their arrogance.
LOL....wondered why you stayed with him so long....that was exactly what I said after wasting 33 years in a bad marriage.....so glad you didn't get to the point of marriage where we try to make the commitment work.
So often it's hard to let go hoping that they really will come around & see the REAL picture. That's because we can't let go of our hopes for what we WISH the relationship COULD BE if they weren't so totally dysfunctional. Just like we want them to see the reality......we also need to see that REALITY that they JUST aren't the person we were hoping they would be.