Thanks. I needed the honesty.

So roughly 20 minutes ago, I sent her one last message just to say "I'm starting to regret unloading on you like this. It's not the right time. We'll talk about it when you get home."

Then she replied saying "I've been waiting for you to realize that. Hakuna your tatas." (Which she says a lot, and what she means is calm down/stop worrying)

Her response still irked me a bit, but I then just said "I love you. Please still think about what you're doing. Talk to you soon."

And that's that.

I'm still worried about how things will go. I really don't want to loser her. I know I haven't painted a great picture of her here, but I promise you all - this is the only side of her I don't like. She really is an incredible girl otherwise. And as some of you said, it's probably my weakness and annoying traits that have pushed her to do this.

I definitely don't want to tell her that I realize I'm being weak and I need to work on myself, because that'll probably just make me look even worse and push her even further away. I need to be firm with what I've told her, and she needs to know that she's upsetting me, but somehow mention that I'm not perfect as well. Maybe I'll say we both have things to work on. She needs to show more commitment, and I'll work on trying not to overreact and get so emotional?