Eskie wasn't being rude, she asked valid questions, because this whole situation is REALLY confusing.


One of them you answered, kind of, by telling her off and stating your fiancé is happily agreeing to this arrangement and has known the score for 8 years..


The other question, "what exactly are u committing to?

Is just as valid.


Because if you are not in a committed relationship, what exactly IS your commitment here?


To not leave him?


(That's not sarcasm, I'm actually curious)


Again, to each their own, I'm just trying to understand, and if you're offended by the responses received, you probably shouldn't post questions you know the answer to, or if you know there's a good chance you'll dislike the answers.


It's just practicing good self-care, protecting yourself from feeling victimized, not censorship.

So don't take that the wrong way please.