i didn't kno him when he went to a therapist-so as far as diagnosis go-there are none-when i say depressed-im going on what i see i guess-and my own personal struggle with depression. how do you watch the person you love go through this-he's always not feeling good-im so worried about his health. It makes me feel better that there is little i can do to make him worse-bc i sometimes just feel like i do everything wrong-i just want to see him happy again-and i don't know how to bring it up without him shutting me out-i don't know how to let him know that im a safe person-and i care so much about him. he says when he has to talk about it-it makes him feel like he wants to just kill himself bc he feels so ashamed-im in a catch 22.