No matter what the fantasy is, you're probably not alone. People can get turned on by anything.

I have strange fantasies, too. I am bothered by them because I feel like I can't get turned on from normal love making. I need to have these fantasies and I don't know why.

But, I am fine with having these thoughts. I don't actually act it out. I have told my husband I have them and he doesn't care. So, who is it hurting?