What about your mother? I'm a girl and I hate women, I always thought that kind of blanket hatred could only arise in someone that has an abusive mother. To be honest, I don't actually hate women, but it is harder for me to trust them... I have come to realize it is my issue though.

I would say maybe try therapy on this issue. Could be that you are unconsciously sabotaging yourself by picking the wrong women. For what it is worth, research suggests the brains of men and women are impossible to distinguish by MRI. That is to say, although men have pee pees and women don't, the biology and brain function is strikingly similar. Of course, women are socialized to be women, and men to be men.

I think part of what I hate about women too is the parts that (I feel) are socialized in that aren't actually useful things. For example, men are socialized to be independent, to be providers, but girls are almost socialized in the opposite way. As a girl growing up I was very athletic and stubborn, and I would be punished in a sense for things that were good, because they weren't "feminine." I think that all these centuries of keeping women as slaves basically has taken it's toll on society. Just think, not 100 years ago women couldn't vote or own land! We are literally only one or two generations into having actual jobs... it's a real mess. As a girl the thing I cant stand the most is all the women who pretend to be weak just to manipulate men into doing things for them. This was my mother. The fact is we are not that weak. I know how to use the remote and plug in the DVR, I can change a tire, and replace a light bulb.