To solve any problem the first thing you have to do is examine it honestly. You're letting your pain overwhelm your better judgement. It's just not possible that you've never met a decent woman anywhere. But I understand that the bad experiences are standing out the most in your memory.

So get honest, and try and put away irrational resentment. It will get you nowhere. Think about getting some counseling. You need someone IRL to talk to about this. I recommend a female counselor.

For some reason, you're gravitating toward the wrong kind of women. Maybe you are letting the women pick you, instead of you picking them. At age 33, this is going to be tough to turn around. Start now. You can't change other people. You need to change you. Somehow you are getting in your own way. If you believe a bunch of untrue, negative stuff, then you will assume you have no power to change anything, and nothing will change. That's the lazy way out. Empower yourself with honest acknowledgement of basic truths. Such as: lots of men are in very happy relationships with good women who love them. Deep down, you know that is true.