Hi Creedart,

I do not know the social views towards Gays in Poland, so I cannot say how your parents may react as people from an older Generation. You could gain an insight by how accepting they are of your sister's life now. I doubt they would view you any differently whichever way they are.

The most important thing is for you and your partner to be happy and have a stress-free relationship. If that means keeping it a secret, do that, but I can see it causing a lot of strain. Alternatively, divulge the information in a calm manner, preferably with your sister there for support, and let the chips fall as they will.

Dave.