That link really doesn't make anything clear about the suspension other than that it's not an outright ban. I'm rather confused as to how DocJohn explained it. Also, why is there talk allowed of a member who cannot defend themselves? I thought doing so was against the rules. Is it not? Why is it acceptable in this instance? What makes this case so special all of a sudden?

It makes me ill that we are talking about a member who cannot defend herself. Where is the justice in that?

Alas, the only answer I fear we are going to get is "We aren't allowed to discuss administrative issues publicly", which doesn't answer anything. It's basically, "No comment".

Okay, sorry, I'm letting my emotions boil over here. I can't help but be angered and confused because the rules are broken and the staff isn't giving answers as to why they aren't enforcing them like they usually do. I guess rule breaking bothers me. I know things aren't always black and white, I get that. I'm just angry that people are taking advantage of this situation to not only bully and belittle others, but further the amount of pain already caused. Why deepen the wounds when you can help heal? Isn't that what this site is SUPPOSED to be about?

Sorry, maybe I should just keep my mouth shut and not help anyone anymore. Is that the answer?